The Chosen Ones
If you want the Love of God, you must give up love for other things. This process has been described as surrender.
When certain insects like Moth looks at a bright light, they are attracted by the brightness and even lose their lives. The deer which is attracted by music comes close and get trapped. The bees attracted by the honey inside a lotus get trapped.The fish attracted by the worm inside the net gets trapped.
Imagine a man with five senses and with the amount of distractions in the world, how carefully he should lead his life.
Silent sitting or guided visualizations are prescribed for children to focus their thoughts on God